12 home bloggers’ Christmas candlelight house tours of homes lit up at night decorated for Christmas.
It hardly seems possible that it’s already time for the Christmas Candlelight Tour. Each year, before I step away to enjoy the holidays with family, I team up with my dear blogging friend Rachel of Maison de Pax to share a quiet, candlelit walk through our home at night—soft lights, twinkling garlands, and a sense of calm.
Whether or not you photograph your home after dark, I hope you’ll take a few minutes to do what we do: turn off the screens, play soft seasonal music, and move slowly from room to room. There’s something grounding about experiencing your decorations by candlelight, especially after a long, busy season.
This time of year is full of joy, but it can also feel overwhelming. When calendars overflow and tasks mount, I try to remind myself that unfinished chores don’t erase the meaning of the season. In the final days before Christmas Eve, I put down the to-do list and choose gratitude in the present moment.
We often pile pressure on ourselves at Christmas. As a child I adored the lights, the presents, and the traditions, and I now recognize how much of that magic my mom created. If you’re feeling like the one holding everything together—especially if you’re a mom—please know you are enough. You deserve rest.
It’s perfectly okay to order takeout when you’re exhausted. It’s okay if the house isn’t spotless or if some traditions change. In celebrating the Prince of Peace, it’s good to put peace at the center of the holiday.
I often think we’re invited to be more like Mary than Martha—to sit, to listen, to rest—rather than to exhaust ourselves with preparation. Give yourself permission to breathe and to say, “I have done enough; I will rest.”
No matter what this season looks like for you—whether you’re celebrating quietly or hosting a big dinner—I hope you find peace and feel welcome to come as you are. The quiet, anticipatory parts of Christmas are some of its truest gifts: the waiting, the hope, the sense that good things are near.
Many of us have endured difficult seasons lately—loss, disappointment, and extended periods of waiting. Those hard stretches shape us, teach us, and make the joyful moments that follow even sweeter. Our home holds evidence of both struggle and resilience; those contrasts are part of the story.
Gathering around the table or the tree becomes more meaningful when we recognize how far we’ve come. The good in life often arrives after hard work, waiting, and letting go. There will never be a perfect home, family, or holiday—and accepting that frees us to enjoy what matters most.
I still remember Robert’s and my first Christmas together in a tiny, barely-affordable apartment. Our secondhand tree had half-working lights and thrifted ornaments, and yet sitting there watching It’s a Wonderful Life I felt deeply grateful. That memory reminds me each year that presence matters more than perfection.
Part of the joy of this season is anticipation—the sleepless excitement on Christmas Eve, the small pleasures of counting down the days. That waiting can be painful at times, but it often shapes and prepares us in ways sudden change cannot.
Because of the challenges of recent years, many of us long for brighter days ahead. I hold onto hope: tomorrow is a new day, and next year can bring goodness. The hard seasons have made us appreciate simple gatherings and quiet moments even more.
These rooms have witnessed hard moments and near-despair, and they’ve carried us through. That history makes celebrating together more fulfilling. When we choose peace over perfection and presence over presentation, we allow the season’s true meaning to shine.
There is so much good ahead when we hold on to hope. I hope you’ll offer small acts of kindness this season—a warm word to a cashier, a donation to a local pantry, a moment of encouragement to someone who needs it. Giving a piece of your heart is one of the most meaningful gifts.
We’ve earned our rest by enduring hard seasons, and this house reminds me of that journey: messy, imperfect, and ultimately full of good things. Tonight, I choose to step away from busywork and rest in the peace that the season promises.
Perfection isn’t the aim—peace is. I’m putting down my Martha instincts and choosing to be more like Mary: present, peaceful, and grateful. Whatever your year has held, my wish for you is the gift of peace and gentle moments with people you love.
Wishing you and yours a merry Christmas filled with hope, rest, and moments that matter. I am so grateful for each of you.
“Now may the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace.” – Romans 15:13
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Merry Christmas, friends!
